Here are links to some of the authors that I read and respect tremendously:
And some others to resources and items of miscellaneous interest:
Erotica Reader and Writer’s Association is the premier place to go for writers and readers of erotic fiction. Fully curated and consistently updated, this site contains everything from erotic shorts by respected authors to reviews and calls for submission.
Good Vibrations. One of the oldest and most respected purveyors of sex toys, books and advice on the web. If they don’t have it, it may not exist, and if it does exist, they’ll vet it, review it and get it in stock.